When parents share 50/50 custody, one of the most common and stressful questions is about taxes. Specifically, who gets to claim the child on a tax return? For divorced parents or those involved in a child custody case, the answer can directly impact tax benefits, available credits, and overall tax liability. A simple misunderstanding of the rules can lead to lost refunds, IRS disputes, or unnecessary conflict between parents.
If you are unsure how these rules apply to your situation, you do not have to navigate them alone. Clarity Family Law helps parents understand their rights, avoid costly tax mistakes, and plan ahead to prevent future disputes. Schedule a confidential consultation with Clarity Family Law today and get clear, trusted guidance before tax season begins.
Understanding 50/50 Custody and Taxes

A common misconception is that joint custody automatically means equal parenting time. The question “Is joint custody 50/50?” does not always have a yes-or-no answer.
In family law, legal custody refers to decision-making authority, while physical custody and parenting time determine where the child actually lives. Many parents share legal custody but do not have equal overnight parenting time.
From a federal tax law perspective, the Internal Revenue Service does not rely on state custody labels. Instead, it looks at:
- Where the child physically lived
- The number of overnight stays with each parent
- Who provided the majority of financial support
These factors matter far more than how custody is described in court paperwork.
Who Is the Custodial Parent in 50/50 Custody?
One of the most searched questions is who is the custodial parent in 50/50 custody.
For tax purposes, the custodial parent is the parent with whom the child lived for more than half the year, measured by overnight stays. Even in shared custody arrangements labeled as 50/50 custody, one parent often ends up with more overnights once holidays, school breaks, and vacations are counted.
The non-custodial parent is the parent with fewer overnights, even if that parent pays child support or shares expenses.
If the overnight time is exactly equal, the IRS applies tiebreaker rules.
IRS Tiebreaker Rules in Equal Parenting Time Cases

When parenting time is truly equal, the Internal Revenue Service applies tiebreaker rules under federal law.
Under these rules, the child is treated as the dependent of:
- The parent with the higher adjusted gross income
- If neither parent qualifies, no one may claim the child
These custody ratio tiebreaker rules apply regardless of what a court order or divorce decree says.
Can Both Parents Claim Child on Taxes?
Another frequent question is whether both parents claim the child on taxes.
The answer is no. Only one parent may claim the dependent child in a given tax year.
Only one parent may claim:
- The dependency exemption or dependent exemption
- The child tax credit
- The earned income tax credit or earned income credit
- Head of household filing status
- Most state and federal tax deductions
If both parents attempt to claim the same child using the child’s social security number, one or both tax returns may be rejected or audited, often delaying refunds during tax season.
Divorce Decrees, Court Orders, and Parenting Plans

Many parents assume that their divorce decree, custody agreement, or parenting plan controls tax claims. While these documents matter under state domestic relations law, the IRS is not bound by them.
That said, divorce decrees and custody orders often require one parent to release tax claims using IRS Form 8332. If a parent violates a court order, the IRS may still follow federal law, but the violating parent could face legal consequences in family court.
This is why coordinating legal advice and tax planning is so important.
IRS Form 8332 and Alternating Tax Claims
IRS Form 8332 allows the custodial parent to release certain tax claims to the non-custodial parent. This is common among divorced parents who agree to alternate years.
Form 8332 can transfer:
- The child tax credit
- The dependency exemption
- Certain tax deductions
However, it does not transfer:
- Head of household status
- Earned income tax credit
- Child and dependent care credit
Those benefits remain with the custodial parent under United States tax law.
Child Tax Credit and Other Tax Benefits
The child tax credit is often the most valuable tax benefit available to parents. Only one parent may claim it per year, subject to income thresholds.
Other tax benefits may include:
- Dependent care credit
- Child and dependent care credit
- Child and dependent care tax credit
- Health coverage tax credit
- Certain child tax deductions
Each credit has different rules under federal tax law and tax structures, which is why parents often benefit from working with a financial advisor in addition to legal counsel.
Head of Household Filing Status

Head of household status, also called head of household filing status, can significantly reduce tax liability.
To qualify, a parent must:
- Be unmarried or considered unmarried
- Pay more than half of the household expenses
- Have the child live with them more than half the year
Even in shared custody cases, only one parent typically qualifies for head of household status.
Child Support and Taxes
Parents often ask, if you have joint custody, who pays child support.
Child support is determined under state law based on income, parenting time, and expenses. Child support taxable income rules are separate from tax claims.
- Child support is not deductible
- Child support is not taxable income to the receiving parent
This distinction frequently causes confusion during divorce and custody cases.
Qualifying Child vs. Qualifying Relative
The IRS applies a qualifying child test and a qualifying relative test to determine dependency eligibility.
To meet the qualifying child test, the child must:
- Live with the parent for more than half the year
- Meet age requirements
- Not provide more than half of their own support
Most shared custody cases fall under the qualifying child test rather than the qualifying relative test.
What Happens When Parents Disagree?

When parents disagree over tax claims, the consequences can include:
- IRS audits
- Delayed refunds
- Penalties and interest
- Increased legal fees
- Post-divorce litigation
Some families resolve disputes through alternative dispute resolution, while others require court enforcement of support orders and custody agreements.
State Law Considerations
Although taxes are governed by federal law, state courts, including Colorado divorce courts, often address tax allocation in divorce proceedings. Judges may consider tax savings when determining spousal support, child support, and overall fairness.
Still, the Internal Revenue Service has final authority over what happens on a tax return.
How Clarity Family Law Can Help
At Clarity Family Law, we help parents navigate the intersection of family law and taxes. Whether you are negotiating a parenting plan, enforcing custody orders, or planning ahead for tax time, our team provides practical guidance tailored to your situation.
If you are unsure who should claim your child, how tax credits apply, or whether your divorce decrees are enforceable, we invite you to contact Clarity Family Law for a confidential consultation. With the right planning, you can reduce conflict, protect your finances, and focus on what matters most: your child.